Heaven is described as a place of ultimate contentment, where people will exist in a state of peace with themselves and God.
When asking for heaven, we are told to ask for Al-Firdaus, the highest part closest to God, rather than just asking for heaven itself. The wisdom of this is to constantly be in a frame of mind of seeking and wanting the best.
Living a queer existence forces you to choose between accepting a status-quo, non-progressive, passively phobic stance, for a true, positive, and forward thinking life. Never accept anything less than what you deserve, and what will allow you to live a life real to your truth.